Digging in vs. Reaching Out - Braver Angels

Digging in vs. Reaching Out

This weekthe challenge of depolarization came into sharp focus. More and more politicians are being accused of not being liberal/conservative enough. And the strategy of “motivating the base” rather than “persuading the undecideds” (digging in vs. reaching out) is being urged.  It’s understandable.  Depolarization isn’t easy. It means a willingness to be civil not just to those whose views you disagree with, but whose views are abhorrent to you. Views, for example about race. Or abortion. Or sexual orientation. Or religion. Or immigration.  The “other side” on these kinds of issues can be repugnant, even inhuman to you. And it’s literally demeaning to say that ”both sides” are legitimate. So what if you “know” the other side is dead wrong, how can you—why should you—justify civility?  Two reasons:  First, civility fosters long-term success by winning agreement rather than overwhelming disagreement. Civility, in short, is a tool for changing minds.  And second, civility fosters the freedom to be different—to disagree—by winning in the marketplace of ideas rather than the head-count of majority. Too often, what is right does not mean who as the biggest “base.” Hitler, after all,  won election by very big margins. Civility, in short, is a powerful lever for the minority vs. the majority, for right vs. power. Discarding civility may feel good in the moment. But the long term risks are great.

When reading these examples, check the above list and ask yourself: regardless of whether you agree or disagree, is this really advancing an intelligent resolution through the persuasive, rational arguments of advocacy…or simply fueling the fire of conflict through the divisive, emotional manipulations of polarization?

Rather than the usual red vs blue examples of polarization, this week’s headlines show the increasing, frightening drumbeat, from the right and left, pushing polarization. 

Trump Pick Deemed ‘Not Conservative Enough’ Withdraws

Beto O’Rourke not liberal enough, progressive Democrats say

Garland Tucker says Sen. Thom Tillis not conservative enough… GOP primary challenge in 2020

One-Third of Democrats Say Biden Not Progressive Enough, Out-of-Touch

Biden says he was a staunchly liberal senator. He wasn’t

Liberals’ frustration with Pelosi rises over her response to Omar dispute

Donald Trump continues to bet on his base to keep his job

The Democrats’ 2020 dilemma: Rally base or persuade moderates?

Electorate’s portion of ‘swing voters’ reaches a new low

Victory Does Not Depend on Swing Voters

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