Screaming Back is Not the Best Way to Win the Argument - Braver Angels

Screaming Back is Not the Best Way to Win the Argument

This weekthe polarizers are off to a pathetically good start, filled with predictions of how the “other side” will single-handedly ruin America because “they” are liars, hypocrites, frauds and more.  Assuming, for a moment, the idea of false equivalency, it may just be that screaming back in kind is not the best way to win the argument. As we enter what will undoubtedly be one of the most rancorous presidential election seasons in memory, perhaps some other tactics will be explored. Of course it just may be that thinking and listening really don’t work anymore. But then where are we?

When reading these examples, check the above list and ask yourself: regardless of whether you agree or disagree, is this really advancing an intelligent resolution through the persuasive, rational arguments of advocacy…or simply fueling the fire of conflict through the divisive, emotional manipulations of polarization?

Here are just a few of the blue and red polarizing headlines from the past week.

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