Monica Guzman is Braver Angels’ Senior Fellow for Public Practice and the author of the best-selling book “I Never Thought of It That Way: How to Have Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times.” Over the past few months, Monica’s been traveling the country to lead curious conversations inspired by the themes of her book. Here she joins Braver Angels CMO Ciaran O’Connor to discuss what she’s learned about the state of our nation’s divisions, how different audiences engage bridge-building depending on their ideologies and identities, and how we can get more curious, together, as a nation in crisis.

‘Braver Angels really helped me to see the humanity in people from the other side’: One high schooler’s journey to better political conversations
A native of Boulder, Colorado, Mia didn’t know many Trump supporters—and she was nervous to engage with them. “I was like, ‘Don’t they hate women? Don’t they hate black people?’” she said. “That was my initial belief because that’s what I had heard about people who voted for Trump.” But she quickly realized she was wrong. During the first Braver Lens session, Mia was able to connect with conservatives in the group and recognize their points of commonality. “When we met, they showed their pictures, and explained their life stories, and I was able to see where our values overlap,” she said.


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I’m so grateful for the people who are taking the time to talk with each other and to be curious about how to reach out, how to make outreach work.
My training and experience, learning and teaching keeps bringing me back to basic structural issues. I think we need to teach dialogue as a skill. High school programs usually focus on debate. I’ve noticed that debate is a word used by Braver Angels as a part of the process. I think that’s a mistake because debate is inherently competitive.
I will continue to reach out and suggest that we use the term dialogue and that we teach the difference between dialogue and debate. Thanks.